Have you actually ever read the biology of how a woman actually falls pregnant? How it ever happens is really a flipping miracle. So much has to be just right in order for this to happen. Ron will tell you all about 'dominant follicles' (within a womans eggs) and alkaline and acidity come into play, gravity etc. etc. it is actually quite fascinating and by no means I believe a complete accident.
Yes there are ways and means to enhance the ability to fall pregnant, but I believe when the time is right and the little being that was planned before you had your 21st birthday, before you got married, is supposed to join your world, he/she or they - (that one's for Brandon and Ronel's twins) will make their entrance. Yes some will say what about poverty and people having 8 children because they wont use contraception in the rural areas etc. etc. they werent planned! Well some of the poorest people that had those 8 children, I believe all 8 have/had a purpose for being born. If you take someone like Oprah Winfrey who was born to a coal miner father and a mother who was a maid, who suffered abuse and racism, has turned out to make a difference in so many lives, in so many countries. Yes perhaps that was her choice but she still needed to be here to make that choice. Children that are meant to be will be - to make a difference in the lives of the family around them.
As I mentioned in a previous post, so many of our friends have just had their babies and have been on my blog with pictures etc, what a privilege to be able to see how these young ones grow up and have all the children of friends grow up around each other.
Brandon and Ronel's 'tweeling' - twins made their appearance a whole 2 months early, last week, Nicola and Bianca were coming out and that was that. With much worrying and praying that they would be alright, they seem to be doing very nicely and we are wishing Brandon and Ronel all the best with the huge but blessed task of being parents to these two little girls. We are waiting for Caroline Avnit and Taryn Fowler and Tammy Smith now - 1 girl and 2 boys respectively, wow by now we could start a day care facility just with all our friends kids :-)
Not a great quality picture but them with just one of the twins:
Have a great weekend all
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